This Mom’s Hilarious Post About Not Being The Cool Mom Is Hysterical and Terrifying

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There are two kinds of moms in this world. Cool and not cool. I know that I am not cool. I’m a dumpster fire of a hot mess. I’m comfortable with that, but if for some reason you are not able to make the distinction of where you fit in the cool mom spectrum, Amy Dulock has a viral facebook post that will help us all determine our status. And it’s gotten so much attention she started a facebook page called, Confessions Of An Uncool Mom.

This Mom's Hilarious Post About Not Being The Cool Mom Is Hysterical and Terrifying
Credit: Amy Dulock

Amy writes:

“First, some background. My sister and I have a running joke about how we’re not, and never will be, one of the “cool moms.”

You know the ones I mean. The ones with great tans, perfect hair and makeup 100% of the time, with the one child whose clothes never seem to stain and whose hair is always fixed.

They’re never late to things, either. They just have the “look.” They’re cool.

They know just what to say in social situations, and their children don’t do weird things like drink spilled juice off the walmart floor (another true story, and probably in my top 5 most embarrassing moments). So, I’ve accepted that with my 4 weird kids, and my weird self, I will never be a cool mom. I’m totally fine with that.

I’m embracing it. Being cool is way too much work.”

Amy’s story begins at every mom’s summer hell: swimming lessons. The morning ritual we all force ourselves to do in the summer.

Who doesn’t want to sit in the sun while a teenager teaches their kids to flap their arms in water?

But Amy and her sister have made a different observation about swim lessons:

“…we have noticed there is a very clear distinction between the cool moms and the uncool moms. The cool moms arrive 15 minutes early to properly sunscreen their already fed child (with the $50 sunscreen), take them to the restroom, make sure their towel is neatly folded and waiting for them inside the designer beach bag. These moms sit in the sun and soak up the rays, adding to their gorgeous tans. Somehow, after sitting in the blazing sun for an hour, their hair is still perfect AND THEY DO NOT SWEAT. What magic voodoo do they have that they don’t sweat when it’s like the face of the sun outside?? So those are the cool moms.”

I don’t know about you but I am aware of these magical unicorn women. What’s their secret? Is it one of those ridiculous facial masks that makes you look like The Phantom of the Opera? Maybe it’s an essential oil? Regardless, I am not a cool mom. When I read Amy’s description of herself I realized we may be the same person.

For example, here’s a picture of her sister wiping her face before a family photo. We can totally relate.

Photo Credit: Amy Dulock

“This is me: I get to swim lessons as class is starting, shove whichever kid happens to have a class that hour out of the car without shoes or a shirt and tell them to go get in the water. Sunscreen isn’t even a thought in my head.

I tell my other kids to grab the towels (that were still left in the car from lessons the day before), while I get Claire out and put whichever shoes happen to be in the floor on her feet, and then dig through the disgusting back seat (where the older boys sit) to find a rubber band from Noah’s rainbow loom so that I can put Claire’s hair in a “messy bun,” which is code for “I haven’t brushed her hair in more days than I can count, and it’s a disgusting rat’s nest.”

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Credit: Amy Dulock

I grab my coffee cup and spill coffee down my shirt (this happened more than twice) while reaching in to get the walmart sack full of food and junk that I’ve thrown in it because we didn’t have time to eat breakfast before we left the house. Inevitably, one of the bananas has been squished.

I stop to question whether or not I’m wearing the same shirt I wore yesterday, and try to remember if I had spilled coffee on it yesterday. I walk past the cool moms, with two shoeless kids and one kid in polka dot rain boots, carrying my sack of food, coffee down my shirt, and head for the table that’s underneath the small canopy that provides like 6 square feet of shade.

I throw my sack on the table, one kid trips and cries, one kid pushes another, spills my coffee, and I sit down trying to crowd in with the other moms seeking shade.

I leave with sweat dripping down cracks I didn’t even know I had.”

Yes, I am familiar with the messy bun/rat’s nest parent hack. Also I’m still discovering my cracks and just how much sweat can drip from them.

But even I, in my infinite not cool-dumpster fire-ness have not experienced the trauma Amy was about to go through. One she described as “I have PTSD episodes every time a bird flies by.”  Amy goes on to tell us the horror:

“SO, last Friday, I sit down. It was the last day of swim lessons, and things were looking pretty good.

We weren’t late, I hadn’t spilled anything, and my kids had actually eaten, but I brought them snacks, like a good mom.

I’m sitting back in a chair, trying to get in the shade more, and out of NOWHERE, a freaking bird flies at me AND LANDS ON MY CHEST.

Now, this bird isn’t just perching. It’s flapping and squawking and freaking out. So, as one would expect, I start screaming. Remember, we’re at swim lessons, outside, and it’s fairly quiet. The kids are in the pool, all the parents are quietly talking. And then I scream. And scream. And try to hit the bird off of my chest. And scream some more. THE BIRD HAD LATCHED ONTO MY SHIRT WITH ITS FEET AND WAS FLAPPING MY FACE. MY FACE.”

It’s like a scene from a Hitchcock movie, and although I’m awkward, and trip on nearly a daily basis. I’ve never ever had this big of an incident.  What happens with the demon bird? Amy goes on:

“I want you to picture this. A quiet pool. Cool moms lounging in the sun. People talking about how hot it was. And then out of nowhere, a grown woman piercing the silence with screaming, swatting at a bird flapping on her chest, squawking in her face. Just picture it.

I don’t know how long it stayed on there. It couldn’t have been more than 15 seconds, but it felt like an eternity. An eternity of screaming and flailing and flapping and squawking – the bird and I in perfect harmony with our movements and sounds. I finally hit it hard enough that it flew away, and as I raised my face up to look around in shock, every single person in the entire place was staring at me. Everyone. The kids and the life guards in the pool, every parent, including the cool moms.

Literally everyone.

They were all staring at me with open mouths. And because I am so awkward, I couldn’t do anything but laugh. Loudly. And for a long time. I was crying laughing.”

The world watches as all not cool swim lesson moms Hunger Games salute, Amy.  Just reading the whole ordeal would make any mom, regardless of cool level, cringe.  I’m so glad Amy could laugh it off, despite the volume. And I doubt a cool mom would have kept her cool (see what I did there) during a bird attack.

So kudos to Amy. Apparently, however, this was not an isolated incident, Amy writes:

“And then, a woman came out of the building next to the pool (the brick building with the closed door) because I had been screaming so loudly. She looked over at me, and sighed and said, “Dang. Was it the bird again?” As if this is a thing that happens. A completely normal, every day thing that happens. I have never been so embarrassed. I don’t think I can ever look at birds again.”

I’m here to tell you Amy, that this is not normal. Heaven help the other moms at the swimming pool. We may need to start a swim lesson bird attack support group if it keeps happening. This bird clearly needs to be stopped before it strikes again.  

From one uncool mom to another, thank you for sharing your struggle, Amy. Let her post remind us, all of us, that we are just one bird on our chest away from complete uncoolness. 

I hope to just stick with the coffee stain.

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Posted by Amy Dulock on Thursday, July 19, 2018

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