That's Inappropriate App for Notifications + Connecting!



$1.99 / Month

  • Find Mamas
  • Free App
  • Coffee Klatch
  • 10% Off Storewide
  • Community Groups
  • Community Forums
  • Open Mic
  • In-App Notifications
  • Community Challenges


Free / Lifetime

  • Find Mamas
  • Free App
  • Community connect+ Group
  • Community connect+ Forum
  • In-App Notifications


Free / Lifetime

  • Free App
  • In-App Show Notifications


This community has been a dream of mine ever since I began blogging in 2014. I wanted a place where any mom or dad could go to find the support that we all so desperately need. Even more is that it would be available without judgement or ridicule. Find what you need, when you need it here in the Hot Mess Express Community because we are all Perfectly Imperfect Parents.

Find Mamas

Join the community, insert your location profile and identify other Hot Mess mamas in your geographic are. You can connect with them directly in the community. Many have connected and had coffee or their own Chitty Chatty Pitty Patty sessions.

Your privacy is of the utmost importance to us. Mamas are found and identified by their Zip codes. We do not share or publish your home or mailing address. We recommend that you not publish or share those items online.

connect+ Social Parenting Community

Don't do it alone. This community is proof that no one has to do it alone. As parents we have questions and our questions have questions. Head in to our connect+ Social Network to connect with other parents that have or are currently experiencing your situation. All in a judgement free environment that you can visit in your pajamas.

Can't find what you need? Then create your own private group and invite others to join you as you build your own tribe. You can like and follow as many groups, forums and people as you want in inside the community as you continue to build your tribe and support network.

10% Off Shop Discount

Official That's Inappropriate swag is only available in my online shop. I do my best to bring you the most reliable brands at the best prices available. These include Anvil™ triblend shirts, Tervis™ Tumblers and MotherTrucker™ Hats.

Hot Mess Express Community Members receive a 10% discount in the store and free unlimited digital downloads.

Coffee Klatch with Meredith

Join Meredith for a Zoom video conference. Short of coming to your house, this enables Meredith an opportunity to do her most favorite thing. Connect with you, in a more personal manner. By appointment only, the small group sessions allow kitchen table conversations to take place no matter where you are.

Private Facebook Group and Live Show

Home to the exclusive weekly community show, Sanity Break of Safety's Sake on Thursday at 11 AM EST. ASanity Break is a short escape form the everyday parenting grind in a Facebook Live format.

The group will also play host to the Community Challenge live show on Sunday evening at 8 PM EST. This show is designed to support you through the ongoing Community Challenges.

Community Challenges

The Community Challenges are designed to help participants grow and stretch themselves. We often get lost in our own worlds and need help regaining our perspective. Let me challenge you to rediscover you.

The challenges can run independently or you can participate in a scheduled weekly live event on Sunday at 8 PM EST.

Digital Downloads

Free to Hot Mess Express Members, the digital downloads include phone backgrounds to match your swag and a daily planner. More digital items will be appearing regularly for the community.

Open Mic

Everyone has a story to tell. The Open Mic blog is your opportunity to get creative and share your story with the community. By sharing our personal stories we empower others to find their voice and strength to persevere.